A combination of really getting to know yourself and adapting each time really helps. I know what I want and where I’m going. I leave room for change and unforeseen occurrences and life in general. I also have this scenario I present to myself regularly, what if everything was wiped out tomorrow and I had to start from scratch with a group of survivors. What would I be able to bring to the table? What kind of skills at the very bottom of my foundation exist. How would I approach others to build something strong again? This helps me to focus on my core abilities and think outside of the box and myself.